Why I started my blog

At the end of last week, I started brainstorming content for this week and panicked because I had nothing new to talk about. I also knew it was going to be difficult to top last week’s vacation inspired posts. Then I realized that I never dedicated a post to why I started my blog. So here goes my best attempt at explaining this new roller coaster in my life.

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Tuesday Thoughts: Feeling Discouraged

For the first time in my life, I have given myself the opportunity to execute the ideas that have been tucked away in the deepest corners of my brain. It feels wonderful, exhilarating, terrifying, and discouraging all at the same time.

The biggest challenge that I have faced so far is feeling discouraged when an idea doesn’t mesh well with my current reality. My problem is wanting to already be 100 steps ahead when I am only beginning to understand the first step. Continue reading “Tuesday Thoughts: Feeling Discouraged”

To be a woman

Tomorrow is International Women’s Day. As I approach this day, I keep thinking about how I can honor the women in my life and the women before me, who have all made it possible for me to be me with all the privileges and the successes that I carry. So I decided to write this poem, dedicated to all women who know what it means to be a woman.

To be a woman,
is to be told
that you have to be
pretty or smart,
or your dreams will only come true
if you stand behind a man.

To be a woman,
is to know
that the moment you leave your home
you are vulnerable to judgement
because of what it means to be a woman,
as defined by those who are not.

To be a woman,
is to be told
that you have to pick and choose
how society should understand you
because
there is no room for you to be complex
it just makes you too complicated.

But from a woman who knows,
I can say to all women,
know that you are inherently strong
because
with all the negative experiences
you have endured
so far for being you,
you still imagine a better place
for yourself, your loved ones, and the world.

Thanks for stopping by.

Sophie Chen